Hello,
Ghost Writer wrote:
"Carmen" wrote in message
.. .
What's wrong with crossdressing? According to the definition I
crossdress every time I'm wearing a T-shirt and jeans as opposed to
a
dress.

BTW, if you were capable of reading you'd see that Mr. Hunter is
married and *straight* - as are the majority of male crossdressers.

Straight? Hmmmm. I'm "straight" and I sure in hell don't wear any
women's clothes. He may be straight in that he hasn't done men
yet(?)
- but it appears the urge may be coming out. The only "male" (I
won't
call it a man) I knew - who started to cross dress - went on to
taking Hormones and grew breasts. I didn't see them often, so it
didn't bother me as to their life style. Was at last contact before
I
dropped friendship waiting for a meat hacking to replace with a
hole.
Once they grew their breasts, they came around and tried to make a
play for me. END OF FRIENDSHIP. I told them to leave and don't look
back. That's been 2 years now.

I'm sorry you ended up losing your friend. The guy who you refer to
is not really a crossdresser though, so much as he was one of those
people who feel that the gender they had at birth does not match the
one their personality has always had. If you look at it from his POV,
the hormones and surgery fixed a mistake. His approach towards you
was most likely made as a "female". His big mistake was not accepting
that to you he'll always be male.
Crossdressing (something I did a paper on in college) isn't primarily
sexual in nature.

You - Carmen, being a woman ( I GUESS) - how would you like to be in
a
restroom with a male crossed dressed - in there with you? If my wife
was in a restroom and some perv went in there cross dressed, I'd be
very ****ed off. G.W.

Yes, I'm a woman. This might surprise you, but I wouldn't have a real
problem with that. If he's dressed as a woman then he's going to
cause quite a stir in the men's room, and might well end up in a
dangerous situation if there are men in there who don't understand
what crossdressers are. What they do is unusual, but only harms
people who look at them and *choose* to be offended.
One more factor that would make the situation of a crossdresser using
the ladies' room no big deal - we only have stalls with locking doors
on them. Really think about urinals for a moment. A bunch of men
who're most likely complete strangers unzip and display themselves
while they answer nature's call. From my POV that's far more
startling than some guy in a dress. :-)

Take care,
Carmen