JerryL wrote:

When my son was a teenager I listened in on his conversations, whether on
the phone or behind his closed door when he was with his friends. Had I not
done this, I don't know what kind of troubles my son would have gotten into
at that time. Sure he bitched, moaned and complained about his privacy but I
didn't care.
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So what you did was to simply ensure that you would never REALLY know
what was happening in his life, and you still don't. He undoubtedly
used the knowledge of your spying as a means to disinform you.

Charming what people think are the results of their actions.
Steve