"R. Steve Walz" wrote in message ...



Because the treatment of the child is wholly responsible for how
the child treats the parent and in fact wholly JUSTIFIES that same
treatment!! YOU GET WHAT YOU DESERVE FROM YOUR KIDS! If you can't
trust them, YOU did it! If they hate you, YOU MADE THEM! If you
were unable to justify their love for you, then you deserve their
hate!! If you don't give them what you were supposed to, AND in a
mode and manner so that they WANTED TO RECEIVE AND ACCEPT IT, then
you DESERVE ALL the results!!

Anyone who pretends they deserve to GET differently than they GAVE,
is LYING! If you can't incur the love of your children so that they
want you PROTECTED, then you don't DESERVE IT!!
Steve

Spoken by a true non-parent.
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You're delusionally wrong. I've got two raised and off on their own
in their late twenties and early thirties. Son 31 and daughter 28.


You are so full of **** you must
have brown eyes.
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The only **** you see is in YOUR head, behind YOUR eyes.


Parents can and some do "everything" right and still
have a problem child,,,
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Nope, nonsense, never ever seen it.
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Just becuase you have never seen it doesnt mean it never
happens. It most certainly does happen,, more than "you" may
think, in that tiny little pompous ass brain of yours. Go spend some
time at a counselling facility for kids and just see how kids can
choose the wrong path in life all by themselves. They're not abused
or mistreated kids, many come from very normal loving homes,
Christian homes where the parents really do practice what they
preach. FYI I work in hospital enviroment and have for more
than 20 years now, and I see this kind of stuff quite often.

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In fact, what you think doing "everything right" then
MUST BE WRONG, ****head!!

You have some psychologically DEFECTIVE pet notions that
YOU just don't want to see go down in FLAMES, but they do!
They really do!:

You see, control freaks like you **** up everything
you touch, your marriages, your children, your lives.

obviously you have NO experience at this
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WWRRRRONNGGGGOOO!!!!
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You post all this "crap" in the manner that you post it with
all your "all caps" and stupid exclamation points and you expect
"anybody" to believe you. And you call ME a control freak??
Again what an absolute pompous ass. I would suggest you
are the acting control freak here.
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which is when some really start to rebel.
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Hint!: Hey, King Big****.
Your "colonists" don't rebel unless you TREAT THEM LIKE ****!
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Absolutely untrue,, rebelling is actually quite normal for preteens
and teens, its part of growing up and establishing their own
independence. Its what a parent does about it that counts.
Like I said get a real education on the subject.
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Mine didn't at ALL, because they NEVER HAD TO!
It isn't a necessity, you know!
Well no, you don't know, do you?

Rebellion is a symptom of ABUSE in a chronically child-abusive
culture like THIS one!
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What total BS this is,, all rebellion is from abuse huh. Now you
have just blown any tiny little shred of credibility you "may" have had,
blown,,, gone . Like I said before read a book, get a life
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All of your stupid all caps remarks and all the stupid exclamation
marks tells me you have an agenda,
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Damn straight, the RIGHT ONE!
I want to see the people like you who **** up children STOPPED!
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My kids are all grown and gone,, all of them are decent
law abiding, tax paying, successful citizens. They arent screwed
up freaks like you are soooo desperately trying to imply. Man
you must come from the twilight zone or somewhere. The mere
fact that you are trying to imply my kids are mental defectives
because of my parenting skills without knowing a thing about
me or my familiy really speaks volumes about YOU.
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And if YOU had you'd know that they agree with ME,
you child-abusive dip****.
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Jesus you are quite taken with yourself arent you?? Once again
you call me a control freak????? You call me a child abuser?? Do you
know my distant past??? have you spoken with my children??? NO .
You are full of nothing more than conjecture and inuendo, nothing
more. There is only one thing worse than a pompous ass, and that is
a self righteous, indignant pompous ass,, kinda like you stevie
Oh and welcome to my killfile, you truly arent worth my time. I dont
debate with unrealistic, narcissistic, asses like you


Jeff


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