Steve today while giving my wife and I a rousing laugh claimed that My
wifes gender was affacted by wether or not I prove to him that she is
female

gues what Steve lied
Gavreilah Katherin KLee Hojacki is female.

she remains feamle if you say she is male

she would reamin female even if I decided to lie and say she was male.

that steve thinks otherwise makes me wonder if he is realy a nurse at
all

gender is determined by chomsomes in my wifes case 2 X's means female