A plea for civility
			 
			 
			
		
		
		
			
			On Jun 13, 1:08 am, "Howard Lester"  wrote: 
 
 
 Yeahhhhh, the personal here is Howard.... 
 
 
Talked to a young fella on the repeater the other day who introduced 
himself by saying "my first personal is Jim and you're my first 
contact, QSL?". 
 
He seemed like a nice sort, delighted that he had just received his 
shiny new call sign, and was anxious to make some new friends. Kinda 
sounded like I felt when I put my new call sign on the air the first 
time way back when, except probably brighter, cuz Jim is one of those 
young computer jocks. Me, I still got problems with the LL scale on 
my 
Pickett slide rule. Yep, I think Jim sounded brighter than me, quick 
to 
catch on to things. 
 
 
But I don't think Jim will be back on the repeater. Before I had a 
chance to really get to know much about Jim, or even wrangle an 
invite 
to lunch, another station, with an impressive "senior" call sign 
joined 
the contact, flashed his shiny Radio Cop badge, and proceeded to 
issue 
Jim a "verbal speeding ticket" for improper lingo on the radio. 
"Radio 
Cop" said the term "personal" (and for that matter "handle") were 
unwelcome in ham radio, and that Q-signals were not to be used on VHF 
voice. Just generally made my newfound friend feel like an unwashed 
interloper. (Gosh, I've been saying "handle" since I was a 
conditional 
class. Slow to catch on, you know.) 
 
 
Now I should point out that "Radio Cop" took pains to appear very 
well 
meaning. Didn't use any bad words that I noticed, was quite polite, 
even seemed like he was trying to be "helpful." In other words, he 
thought he was doing Jim a favor by pointing out his transgression 
from 
our sacred Amateur Radio way of doing things. I think Jim felt just 
the 
same way I did back in a new school in third grade when the well 
meaning teacher pointed out that "we don't keep our pencil behind our 
ear in this room." Sure enough, I looked around and none of my new 
classmates had pencils behind their ears. Sure was embarrassing, and 
at 
that moment I really wished I was back with my good old buddies in 
second grade. Now, if I'd been allowed to hang out a couple of days, 
I'm sure I would have learned how to properly stow my pencil. And if 
Jim would have hung around a couple of days on our repeater I just 
bet 
he would have noticed that his lingo, perhaps learned in another 
radio 
service, was a bit out of place, and pretty soon Jim would sound 
"just 
like the rest of us." Like I said, he seemed pretty bright to me, 
quick 
to catch on to things. 
 
 
"Radio Cop", you have kept our hobby uncorrupted. I heard Jim down 
around 27 Mhz this morning, and saw his ad on eBay trying to sell his 
barely used 2-meter HT. I'm gonna miss my new friend Jim, because I 
think I could have learned something from him. Maybe you could have 
also. 
 
 
Like I said, he seemed pretty bright to me, quick to catch on to 
things.  What do think it was that he caught on to about us from 
"Radio 
Cop". 
 
 
73, de Hans, K0HB 
 
 
~~~ 
  When a true genius appears in this world, you may know him by 
  this sign, that the dunces are all in confederacy against him. 
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