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Lostgallifreyan · October 18th 14, 09:00 AM posted to rec.radio.amateur.antenna

Brian Reay wrote in news:1923299660435308016.369759no.sp-
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If everyone ignores him

You too? I wrote yesterday, of a problem with a neighbour, a problem not too
disimilar to your own with Gareth. Why not draw a firebreak and leave it at
that. He'll try to cross it, but so long as you don't, he can't do a lot. I
understand you have a particular greivance, but I think you're making a
mistake in allowing it to maintain its shape. Let it go. It might takes
years, but it will break up, somehow. Life abhors a vacuum, so make one and
let life fill it with what it will. Most things are better than prolonging
what looks to me like a feud. I'll tell you one thing mo That neighbour of
mine seemes releived every time we meet, that the bad past does NOT have to
recur! He lives next door, so I don't have the luxury of easily escaping him,
or repeatedly pointing out his state from a distance protected by a court's
restraining order. Sometimes we have to try to fox these things ourselves,
and just doing nothing is as good a way as any, we soon think of other things
to do.

Just trying to stop this as best I can. This IS my best shot. If it fails
I'll say no more. If it works, I'll say no more. I won't take any credit
either way, that would be due to you both if you make it work.