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Brian Reay[_5_] · October 18th 14, 01:47 PM posted to rec.radio.amateur.antenna

On 18/10/14 09:00, Lostgallifreyan wrote:
Brian Reay wrote in news:1923299660435308016.369759no.sp-
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If everyone ignores him

You too? I wrote yesterday, of a problem with a neighbour, a problem not too
disimilar to your own with Gareth. Why not draw a firebreak and leave it at
that. He'll try to cross it, but so long as you don't, he can't do a lot. I
understand you have a particular greivance, but I think you're making a
mistake in allowing it to maintain its shape. Let it go. It might takes
years, but it will break up, somehow. Life abhors a vacuum, so make one and
let life fill it with what it will. Most things are better than prolonging
what looks to me like a feud. I'll tell you one thing mo That neighbour of
mine seemes releived every time we meet, that the bad past does NOT have to
recur! He lives next door, so I don't have the luxury of easily escaping him,
or repeatedly pointing out his state from a distance protected by a court's
restraining order. Sometimes we have to try to fox these things ourselves,
and just doing nothing is as good a way as any, we soon think of other things
to do.

Just trying to stop this as best I can. This IS my best shot. If it fails
I'll say no more. If it works, I'll say no more. I won't take any credit
either way, that would be due to you both if you make it work.

I've been ignoring him for years. Unfortunately, he sees any comment as
being directed at him. There isn't much I can do about that.

If others had ignored him as long as I have, he would have lost interest
or exploded by now with frustration.

The vendetta is entirely driven from his side. As was established in
court, his claims are unfounded and false. Figments of his twisted mind.