"Jim" wrote in message
news:3I_oe.28913$nG6.18155@attbi_s22...
I'm not really concerned about on the air privacy because it would not be
used for private conversation.

I see nothing wrong with wanting a private call sign though. I used to
chat with friends on the cb and there were some very questionable people
there. There are also a lot of ham radio operators like this but they
behave slightly better on the air and a call sign is pretty much just a
abbreviation for your home address and phone number.

As I tried to explain in my question I just wanted a way to mute my radio
until a specific person calls me and then have the radio on so I can hear
everyone. I guess this is not possible through a repeater.

This is not another "dig" at hames. I am amazed at what some hams have
done by constructing their own equipment from the ground up and their
quest for electronics and radio knowledge.

thanks for your time

Well, through repeaters, it isn't possible, least not that I am aware. Now,
simplex - it can work. But, simplex can be tough. If you're unaware of what
simplex is, that is radio to radio - no repeater. Every radio has somewhat
different characteristics and so on in range, etc. I think you said you
played with MURS. How about FRS? The range of 2 meters may be the same or
slightly better. "IF" you're both at a fixed location, you could use
external antennas. You can get a newer rig and program a PL into it for
Transmit and Recieve. The only thing remaining is range required, and of
course the license and making sure you do not say anything you don't want
others to know. Mobile 2 meter rigs pack as much as 50 watts while H.T.s go
up to about 7 with some models. I'm not aware of any that do more. So, that
may help you decide.

As for the time, you're welcome. I try to help when I can, but sometimes
things can be misinterpreted. Knowing what I know now, if you decide to get
a license, I'll be the first to welcome you. Good luck.

Lou