I'd expect someone of your advanced age would have learned MANNERS by
now. I bet your secretary secretly says behind your back, "I hate
him; he's so arrogant and rude." Probably looks forward to the day
you retire, so she doesn't have to deal with you anymore, and I
suspect a lot of your coworkers feel the exact same way.
Actually I inspire loyalty because I don't dish out the BS like you do
and treat people as equals no matter their position in the company.
You need to grow up, present yourself as you are and stop pretending.