"Melvin Creep" wrote in message
om...
Hint #4. I was so broken up by my first wife's death from cancer I
remarried just months after her burial.

All the rest of your post is open to conversation and/or opinions...
however, this is a bit personal, and is the man's own business. It is up to
each person to decide or experience how long to grieve. Some go through the
steps of the process quickly, while others never stop grieving. My point
being, it's not up to anyone else to decide. May his wife rest in peace.